Really?

Here's to a friend who probably wants to kill me right now, who is probably thinking, "Oh man, what did i do to deserve a friend like her." or maybe "I hate her. I will never talk to her again." Well, chum, you won't be successful in doing anything of the above because i won't let you. I just won't let you. It's the friendship that matters, not the silly issues. Also, i would like to say a huge thank you. Because, you inspired me to write about another common phase everyone goes through.

M I S U N D E R S T A N D I N G S

Every relationship has gone through it. Be it friendship, love, parenthood or anything else.

One thing i don't like about some people is that they keep absolutely mum when a misunderstanding has happened. I mean dude SPEAK UP. Issues won't speak for themselves. You have to sort them out. Call the person. Do those efforts. Tell them you are angry and that you didn't like the way they spoke to you or that whatever they said, it hurt you. Be open about everything. You liked it? Tell them. You didn't? Then go and speak to them instead of carrying that glum expressions around for days. Like, come on..!!! Someone said something to you over a text and you're sad about it. You decide not to talk to that person. You talk to him/her after 2 days and they really have no idea what you're upset about. Communication is the key. They could have possibly said it casually or as a joke. Chill. Sh*t happens. Everyone goes through it. But, that doesn't mean you have to be sad about it for an eternity. Call them, meet them, sort out the issue. DONE.!

Being said that, NEVER keep your dignity at risk. Bend once, bend twice. But, never let anyone break your dignity. Self respect matters and absolutely no one has the right to take it away from you. If a person does not care about the relation they have with you and just do not care about you, leave that jerk (or princess jerk) alone. Never disturb them again. But, if they do care about you and want to sort things out. Give them a chance.

Back to my silly friend. A message for you.
If you're reading this, i just want to end this with a quote.
"Rishton me daraarein tabhi padti hain agar insaan galatfehmi me uthe sawalo ka jawaab khud dhund le."
**Wink** ;)

Well.. First of all sorry to give a pause to the trail of the iNViSiBLE GiRL..!!! But sometimes, you just cannot control the urge to write what you want to..
Soooo......!!!!
                                                            ****LOVE****

No one escapes the vibes of love. Everyone has to, HAS TO face it at some point in their lives. For some, it goes well, while for others, it's a topsy turvy land..! There is a third category of people i would like to talk about today. The ones who fall in and out of love as often as they change their clothes.
One question that pops up in my mind while writing the above line was, "Boys who belong to THIS third category are known as MAJNU's. Right.? Then Why girls who belong to THIS category are not called LAILA's..? Strange..!
And Silly.
And by silly i remember someone.
ME..!
Silly smile,
Silly style,
Silly you..
And well Silly ME..!! =P

My god.. This wierd bug has got into my head lately, it makes me write everything that i possibly don't want to.
And this bug just forced me to write about                <<< LOVE.. LOVE.. LOVE>>>

It's easy for some.
It's tough for some,
Good for some,
Bad for some..

But, it really doesn't matter to some. It's just a matter of Give And Take. But, according to me, love is all about mutual understanding. It's about staying together in adverse situations and loving each even during those harsh fights.
Here, i would like to give an example from real life.
Once i was sitting in Mc'Donalds with my family and having fun. I was looking here and there (belonged to that third category earlier *_^ ) just when i saw an old couple walking through the door. They were around 60 years of age. The uncle pulled a chair for her wife and sat infront of her and asked, "Ice cream khaogi.??"
My parents found it rather funny but i found it cute. LOVE was the reason for their togetherness.

This particular incident leads me to another phase of love.
RELATIONSHIP.
Generally, relationships come with sweet and sour memories. It depends which memories you want to cherish. At times, the sour memories turn sweet, while, at times, the sweet ones turn sour.
Relationship is all about getting to know each other. Some people love each other, but cannot live together. Result = Failed Relatiosnhip..!!!!
#TILT#
GUYS, Get to know your girl, respect her. Love her.
GIRLS Get to know your guy. Respect him.Give him some space.
And this advice to both of you. NEVER TAKE THEM FOR GRANTED..!
This reduces the trust, and for that matter the love.
She loves him. He loves her. But the love is missing. What the hell..?!
Yeah, this happens. TRUST ME.! ;)
Well, let's get back to our story, our cup of tea, i.e. , the MAJNUS' and the LAILAS'.
Do you ever stop and think that why on earth have these people turned the way they are now? There can be numerous reasons. Let's put them in bullet points:-
1.) They loved someone, who loved someone else. Result- everyone turns out to be a jerk.
2.) They got the one person they loved, but before you could turn into a jerk, they turned into one. Result- everyone becomes a jerk.
3.) They were born this way.
So, there's no reason to be all messed up and curious, because certain question should just be left unanswered.
**WinK**